My Writing
I am a relationship contributor often featured in The New York Times, Mind Body Green, and other international publications. You can also find me on Substack writing a series analyzing the state of stress and relationships in The Balancing Act.
Who changes the toilet paper roll?
I used to be the noticer in our house. My days were full of noticing. I was very good at noticing. I would go as far to say as I was verging on PhD level noticing status.
How (And Why) to Stop Keeping Score In Your Marriage
The goal is to create a partnership, not a ledger.
You Want to Decompress. Your Partner Wants to Be Productive. Another Fight Ensues.
It’s easy to butt heads again and again about how one spends their downtime. Here’s how to stop the arguments once and for all.
Workplaces threaten our relationships
Our workplaces are one of the biggest threats to our relationships. And no one is talking about it.
Your Partner Complains (A Lot). You Get Annoyed. You Fight. How Can You Break The Cycle?
This is what to know — and how to address the issue as a team.
How to Solve The “Why Didn’t You Just Ask?” Argument Once and For All
Recognizing the invisible work done to keep the family running is half the battle.
In The Press
A contemporary, culturally inclusive, and easy-to-digest relationship book for the modern age.
When reading my book you will learn how to work with the three challenges you must tackle as a couple to repair and strengthen your relationship.
You’ll learn fundamental principles including:
Why it’s not working
Creating space that makes it safe to connect
How to navigate hot conversations
The five-part relationship system
Busting the romantic notion that our better half “completes” us
Growing up and growing out―how both your early years and the social connections you make as an adult influence your relational beliefs, feelings, and patterns
Confessions from a couple’s therapist
Real-life relationship stories and practical advice from Liz.